tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-61610650535640807692024-03-14T19:52:31.082+10:00grahamm44Graham was a UK GP before training in Psychiatry in Australia. He has been dedicated for more than 40 years to psychiatric practice in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. Follow Graham's early development in over 40 posts below. Search for 'Making of a Child Psychiatrist'Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.comBlogger658125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-60302023439296667782018-12-20T18:12:00.002+10:002018-12-20T18:18:46.879+10:00Singing Christmas Carols and Transverse Myelitis<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">We had the privilege to attend my grandson's school Christmas Carol Service. While my wife and I and our daughter Sophie were up the back with limited vision of the actual choir, the program was cleverly put together, and there were lots of opportunities for us to sing.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">Sophie has a voice to die for, and sang in choirs for many years. I had 12 years of experience of choirs in my far off youth. Listening to Sophie and beginning to sing along, all the words came back and I even found myself doing the baritone part to several carols alongside her contralto (the descant, if you like).</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">What is strange is that I have not sung like that in years, and it opened up an old treasure store. I find myself wanting to listen to more music, and occasionally wanting to sing along.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">My Transverse Myelitis has slowly deteriorated, and I am not very mobile these days. I am able to walk on most days (with a stick), but my feet and lower legs have poor feeling, and my chest pain is chronic and intrusive. My brain is not as good as it was in past years, and I do have problems with recent memory. I have been wondering how to escape from my gradually deepening depression and sense of gradually giving up.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">Since the concert, I have wanted to listen to more music and rediscover all the stuff on my iPhone I used to listen to when I was active on an indoor bike ((which I have not been for 6 months).</span><br />
<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">I am going to explore this further. Many of you will have noticed that as I lost heart, I stopped blogging. Well, I am determined to get back to it. Watch this space.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-3231966192479595392018-10-08T13:28:00.000+10:002018-10-08T13:35:40.721+10:00Some Sensual Haiku<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: large; white-space: pre-wrap;">I found my true self</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f5f8fa; color: #14171a; font-family: "helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: large; white-space: pre-wrap;">Night passed peacefully</span><br />
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</span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-39414929184204493512017-09-05T11:44:00.002+10:002017-09-13T11:32:43.508+10:00Transverse Myelitis - chronic managementA succinct summary of the ongoing problems from Transverse Myelitis can be found at <http: about-tm="" centers_clinics="" long-term-care.html="" neurology_neurosurgery="" transverse_myelitis="" www.hopkinsmedicine.org=""></http:><br />
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Well worth looking at, digesting possible solutions, and then acting on as much as you possibly can...<br />
<a href="https://www.ninds.nih.gov/Disorders/Patient-Caregiver-Education/Fact-Sheets/Transverse-Myelitis-Fact-Sheet">https://www.ninds.nih.gov/Disorders/Patient-Caregiver-Education/Fact-Sheets/Transverse-Myelitis-Fact-Sheet</a><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-56424741036372514062017-08-22T16:52:00.001+10:002017-08-22T17:43:47.136+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (78) Psychiatric beginnings (1); Australia<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
We flew into Adelaide on the 18<sup>th</sup>
December 1974. Fortunately, we were able to move into the pre-arranged house
straight away; an old bluestone villa on Kermode Street, owned by the hospital.
All I would have to do to get to work was get up, shower and dress, and cross
the road. The hospital was set in parklands a short distance from the city
centre, and just down a hill from North Adelaide. So we had access to wide open
spaces, gardens and playgrounds, and although everything was new to us we were
to find out we had shops and cafes and all the amenities of a modern city
within walking distance. There was even a pub on the corner (The Cathedral
Hotel named after the Adelaide Cathedral just across King William Road); not
that we were ever to frequent it. The fully furnished house was cool and
somewhat dark inside, and the immediate impression was that it was dingy. It
only took a couple of days of summer heat over 100 degrees Fahrenheit for us to
understand the welcome relief of cool and dark. There was a small well-tended
garden, but forays were brief and followed by a sigh of relief as we came back
indoors for a thirst quencher.</div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Of course we had nothing familiar
around us but each other, the clothes we had been able to pack, and our naiveté.
The boys (being boys) had packed cowboy guns in their backpacks and these to
our surprise had been confiscated as we went to board the plane in London. Luckily
they were returned on our arrival at Adelaide airport. There was a strange
relief in seeing the boys resume their chasing games, taking imaginary pot shots
at each other. The rest of our belongings would not arrive in Adelaide for
several weeks. We needed a supply of food to suit the children, but were too
exhausted on that first evening to get more than the bare essentials from a
small local shop. However, on the doorstep the next morning we found a large
cardboard box full of fresh fruit and vegetables, with a note from a Dr. Kerry
Callaghan wishing us a happy Christmas and hoping we would settle in well. This
kind and thoughtful man would become a life long friend and mentor.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Looking back you can see our total
naivete and lack of preparedness. We had spent 3 months in Adelaide as university
students 11 years prior, and must have imagined that we knew the place, the
people and its customs, and would settle seamlessly into our new routines.
There were to be a number of shocks in store. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">The other issue was about the pressure
to get on with things. At one level we needed for me to begin work as soon as
possible to ensure an income, and settle us into a routine. But I now recognise
that I have always had an urgency to get on with things; an internal driver
that has put those around me under pressure. My parents, when they were posted
to Adelaide for three years, used the opportunity to travel home graciously for several
weeks on an ocean liner (the Orsova, I believe). Going further back, my
grandparents had also travelled by boat when emigrating from South Africa. But
for us it was one day in England, two days later in Australia, the only
constants being our family unit and the close bonds between Jan and I as
parents. No small wonder the boys were glad to get back to playing Cowboys and
Indians, and Harriet was clingy.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">There were so many things to do. Apart
from the need to set up some semblance of Christmas for the children, there
were practicalities. We needed urgently to get to the Commonwealth Bank in
Rundle Mall to ensure our funds had been transferred, and organise cheque books,
as well cash for immediate needs. We needed to get transport. We had to get in
touch with our sponsors to start the ball rolling toward getting housing. I had
to clarify the details of my contract, and sign the necessary papers. And none
of this proved to be easy in the silly season that is Christmas, or in the
aftermath when so much closes down for the first weeks of the New Year so that
everyone can go to the beach.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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108 degree heat, and we were to welcome the air conditioning of numerous shops
as we tracked our way to the bank. Along the way Jonathan managed to disappear
in John Martins, given we all had little experience of large busy department
stores, and despite our vigilance. He was found playing happily with the toys
in the lost children’s area after a loudspeaker announcement. Of course he was
totally unaware of our Day 2 ‘disaster’ panic. We all trooped off to see Father
Christmas. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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road to find the Department of Psychiatry, which showed small signs of pending Christmas
with even a tree at reception. Most staff members were still working, if busy,
but someone parked me in the staff room (which was to become the centre of the
work world), made me a cup of coffee, and began the process of introducing me
to staff as they emerged. Then I had some time with Jeff Gerard, the man who
was to be my supervisor, mentor, champion, and life long friend. His letters
had suggested someone who was enthusiastic about life and his work, and our
conversation did not disappoint. He bubbled over with his plans for the
department, ideas about working with families drawn from his time in the United
States, and the statewide training program to which I would become attached. I
was introduced to more staff members, and then packed off to the admin
department with my passport, to sign forms, provide our new bank account
numbers, and set up superannuation. I was to begin my Australian journey to
become a child psychiatrist on 13<sup>th</sup> January 1975.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Jan with all the information, we had lunch, and then began a series of phone
calls to begin to tick off the issues on our rather lengthy list. Our sponsors,
the building company, were understandably keen to show off some of their
houses, and Jan remembers being driven to various suburbs in the bliss of their
air-conditioned car. We were not obligated to buy, but after we had seen a
brand new bungalow in a newly developing outer suburb called Surrey Downs (about
17Kms north of the city), and under the pressure of the short term rental at
the hospital, we signed the papers, handed over a cheque for the deposit, and were
given the keys to our first home in Australia. We were going to need to buy
some basic furniture, given it would be another 6 weeks before delivery of all
of our stuff from Birchington. We were also going to need two cars.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">When I reflect on that time, it was
amazing that we all managed. We must have been beginning the grief of leaving
our known world behind, of saying goodbye to the precious people we knew. Yet
we coped. I suspect that was because of the close relationship and open
communication between Jan and I. We had (and have) a close agreement on most
things, and only very rarely have major disagreements. I think, despite the
problems of everyday life in this new adventure, we kept the tension low, we
made the most of every circumstance, and we kept up a strongly optimistic frame
of mind. This was our family adventure, and we set out to make sure everyone
enjoyed it. We have always tried to keep communication channels open with each
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-1968663068096066662017-06-05T12:36:00.004+10:002017-06-05T12:38:56.742+10:00Haiku on Mess/ Attraction/ Unreality/ Start/ Thinking<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Making Pavlova<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Oh dear, I dropped it
again<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">One more Eton Mess<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Post Brexit</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> chaos<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Then Cameron dropped the ball<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">One more Eton mess<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Surrounded by
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Meditating
quietly<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Fix the inside first<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">A jolly good wash<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">The glamour girl
disappears<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Plain Jane underneath<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">A grade of sticky<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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to tacky<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Instinct says avoid<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">She looked rather
sweet<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Good to try
everything once<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">But never again<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: center;">
<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Unreality</span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Brexit, Trump, Turkey<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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shower<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Unreality<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Battle of the Somme<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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history<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">You and me, my love<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">She gave a small start<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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ended<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">As the racing starts<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">He's quietly confidant<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Holding chequered flag<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">About politics world
wide<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Makes my mind shudder<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">I let my mind wander
wide<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Making connections<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Thinking it all through<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Decided it was rubbish</span></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-76067976401005308652017-05-31T13:08:00.000+10:002017-05-31T13:10:45.397+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (77) The General Practitioner (22); Blue Sky Dreaming<div class="MsoNormalCxSpFirst" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto;">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Jan
had had a good pregnancy, and was feeling well, but given the rather
precipitate birth of Rod we felt it was appropriate to have the safety of the
Margate Hospital maternity ward. Given Rod had had jaundice, and Jan had been
blocked from breast-feeding, she wanted one more opportunity to experience it
in the context of a restful environment and with the support of the nursing
staff. Our beautiful Harriet Louise was born with no complications on the 26<sup>th</sup> October
1973. She thrived, and we were able to take her home on the 5<sup>th</sup> November.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">I mention that date, because it was Guy
Fawkes night, that weird annual celebration of someone trying to blow up the
British Houses of Parliament. Of course with Jonathan being 5 and a half and
Roderick being 3 and a half I had had the fantasy of giving the boys the
experience of being like the rest of the population in celebrating with
fireworks in our front garden at Old Gates. I had not been extravagant, but did
have a couple of Catherine Wheels, several small rockets to be set off from
milk bottles, a packet of sparklers and a couple of Golden Rain fireworks which
could be held in a gloved hand.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">It was not a success. I had trouble fixing the
Catherine Wheels to the back fence so that they spun correctly, and one fell
off and continued trying to spin on the ground; causing much alarm. The rockets
worked, but were less than spectacular. Every time something went bang, Rod
became frightened and ran to hide indoors, and no-one wanted to hold sparklers
or Golden Rain. And of course Jan was not really in the mood, being rightly
focused on our new baby and protecting her from all the noise. Not one of my
finer moments.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">The following morning I picked up the sad
remnants of spent fireworks, the smoke covered milk bottles and the wires from
dead sparklers. I looked round the garden, and back at the house, and felt a
sense of pride in what we had achieved. It was such a beautiful house and we
had invested immense energy in painting, remodeling and upgrading. Why would we
want to leave? Why would we want to uproot a very settled and well off life,
now with two fine and healthy young boys and a healthy infant daughter, all of
whom would be only 14 months older for our emigration if the plans all fell
into place? It all seemed so insane. And yet, I could not see myself mouldering
away as a GP for the next 30 or so years; professionally there had to be
something more. And we had started a ball rolling down a hill, and the process
was slowly gathering its own momentum. We had discussed the whole thing over
and over, and Jan continued to be supportive of the decision despite the
enormous practical difficulties. We argued that if it did not work, if we were
not happy, then after 18 months or so we could always come home. We were
alternately anxious and excited, and focused on the opportunities rather than
the problems and the sheer hard work that might be involved in creating a new
environment for our growing family. And we did not know just how much we did
not know about our chosen new country, and how harsh and unforgiving it could
be.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">I
wrote to Australia House in London, seeking the necessary application papers to
emigrate. I was told we would need UK passports for everyone, and would also
need an Australian sponsor. So in my correspondence with Dr. Gerard, I asked if
he or a member of the staff would be able to do this. That apparently did not
fit into the rules. Yes, we had to have confirmed employment, but the sponsor
had to be 'independent'. So I wrote to my grandfather in Sydney asking him to
sponsor us. He made some enquiries, and apparently a sponsor had to come from
the state to which we were immigrating. We did not feel close enough to our old
friends Kiah and Jan from 1963, having had little contact in the intervening
years, and for the same reason felt unable to ask my parents’ old friend Alf in
whose house they had lived for the three years. We considered Jim Silsbury from
the Waite Institute with whom I had worked for three months, and although he
was still working there, again we felt it would be an imposition. Eventually
reading about migration and sponsorship we came across Hutchinson’s, a building
company that sponsored migrants – with a catch. You had to purchase one of
their newly built houses to live in. An odd arrangement to get around
bureaucracy, but if that was what we had to do, then so be it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">If
we could sell Old Gates quickly, we would have enough of a deposit on a house.
We would certainly need to set up a home quickly, and did not know Adelaide and
its suburbs well enough to worry about where the house would be. We remembered
it as a compact city, with no journey in any direction taking that long,
compared to the years we had spent in London.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">On
the other hand, it has always seemed to me that sponsorship should be by
someone who knew enough about you to. Curiously, we ended up with a sponsor who
knew nothing about us except we were locked into a commercial contract. Jeff
did very kindly arrange for us to live in a ‘hospital flat’ – a house just
across the road from the hospital, though this was going to be limited to 6
weeks after arrival.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">So
the arrangements slowly fell into place throughout 1974.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">We
did our planning around beginning work in Adelaide to begin in January 1975. I
suppose that was good from the point of view of being paid, but ultimately I
was to learn that not much ever seems to happen in Australia in January. The
weather is hot, children don’t go back to school after the summer holiday until
early February, and many staff members take the opportunity for a long break
over Christmas and New Year. We were to arrive just before Christmas, which
gave us time to settle in somewhat, but meant not having Christmas with the
family in England; which was probably a mistake.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">The other way you find out about family and
how they really feel about your actions in life is when they write down their
experiences in their own memoir. Jan’s mum Bobbie did not do this until
prompted in the late 1980s when staying with us in Adelaide, and sometimes with
time on her hands. Her story of our emigration to Australia is worth recording
because it reminds you that families are systems, and every action somewhere in
system has a reaction somewhere else. That is just a technical way of saying
that my choice of a new career direction caused immense pain to others in the
family, and ripples through the community of Birchington. For us, the future
was an exciting adventure, admittedly with a range of anxieties, and problems
to be solved. For others, we left a vacuum. I take the liberty of publishing
Bobbie’s story because I could not write it better.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Now the next
bombshell! That pine kitchen at ‘Old Gates’ is starkly etched in my mind
coupled with Graham’s announcement that they were emigrating to Australia, and
would we join them. Was this to soften the blow, as blow it was. A gorgeous
baby girl Harriett had been born the previous year. The close affinity between
her and Graham was unbelievable from the start. The pressure of general
practice was very heavy on Graham and the attitude of the other partners did
not help. His heart was not in it, and Barbara Castle’s harassment of the
medical profession during the term of a Labour government proved the last straw.
He and Janet had spent a holiday in Australia in 1965 while his parents were
there. His grandparents lived in Sydney, several uncles and numerous cousins
were strewn around that large continent. An advert in ‘The Lancet’ for a
trainee child psychiatrist at Adelaide Children’s Hospital proved irresistible.
He applied for the post and got it; much to his surprise I think. We could only
stagger under the blow, force a smile and wish them luck. There was no question
of us going. I could not desert Wendy and Sheila was young and having a
difficult time. Graham’s mother had died of cancer while they were living at
‘Kingsmead’ in 1970. A shattering blow for him, as they were very close, so he
had no one to leave that he cared about. Those lonely, lonely years for Jan,
the heartache, I don’t honestly think Graham had any idea of how she felt. Our
family ties are so close. My three sons-in-law find it difficult to understand.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Living so near we
were involved in all the packing up and selling of the house. For a few weeks
they lived with us after the furniture had set sail. Bitter sweet memories.
Lovely, lovely Harriet, just over a year old, giving Reg an indignant piece of
her mind when he picked up the newspaper or a book instead of attending to her.
She was just learning to walk, but used his index finger as a prop while she
explored the house and garden. Graham was enthusiastic and excited, at last a
new career, a new beginning in the field of medicine he had always wanted. We
were desolate. Sheila cried all night. On our return from the station after
seeing them off, there was the empty button box, the buttons all over the
floor; Harriet had been playing with them. The stiff upper lip crumbled and we
all dissolved into tears overwhelmed by a crushing sense of loss. I remember
Kate taking over and making the inevitable answer to a crisis – a cup of tea.
Reg and I were numb, and behaved like zombies for weeks. Dear Sheila, how
wonderful, thoughtful and caring she was in our misery. She came home every
weekend, organised a Christmas day with my sister, a Christmas Eve dinner at a
Greek restaurant in London, even a Christmas stocking for each of us on
Christmas morning. To my everlasting shame I did not think about one for her.
They had flown away on 16 December.”</span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-67867022559719260352017-05-26T16:18:00.002+10:002017-05-26T16:18:34.319+10:00Haiku on Deep/ ?/ Always/ Between/ Challenge/ Plan<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Deep in the forest<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Jade portal slightly
ajar<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I enter heaven<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Awake in the night<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Watching your deep sleeping form<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Beautiful dreamer</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Your indentation<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Deep in bed clothes next to me<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A slight hint of lust</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">?</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /></span></span><span style="color: #1f2326; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: large;">Best not write haiku</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">With a mind consumed by filth<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Get therapy first<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">We're not forever<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">But what we do in this world<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Will be remembered<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">We travel slowly<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Drinking in experience<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Savouring our lives</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Always</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">When crossing chasms<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Always look before you
leap<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Where is the far side<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">My ancient promise<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Cor meum in <o:p></o:p></span></span><span style="color: #1f2326; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">eternal</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Always in my heart<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Stream of consciousness<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Constant flow of
memories<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Always on my mind<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Between</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Confusing moments<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Between sleeping and
waking<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Wispy ends of dreams<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Between this and that<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Devil and the deep blue
sea<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I just can't decide<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Between cool white
sheets<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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over time<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Finally a beginning<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Our world is full of
hot air<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Finally agreed<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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sprouted<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Then wished it hadn't<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">In killing human beings<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Never, anywhere<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Living tradition<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">No, sorry, you can't<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Do not even think of it<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Don't need charity</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">General practice<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Must keep practicing<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f2326;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Take pride in your
stride</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Walk off seven deadly
sins<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Learn humility<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Took pride in her home<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Worked her fingers to
the bone<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Keeping things shiny<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Lioness and cubs</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">You see pride in family</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Even in nature</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Look</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Media driven<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Need to look at
everything<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">But not see, or change<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">You look at my face<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">But don't see my hidden
thoughts<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Or perhaps you do<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Look into my eyes<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">You are under my
control</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #1f2326; font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; font-size: large;">Now say you love me</span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-80884830294438414442017-05-17T15:34:00.001+10:002017-05-17T15:34:44.109+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (76) The General Practitioner (21); Blue Sky Dreaming<div class="MsoNormalCxSpFirst">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">On Family<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Of course, listening to a wide range of
theoretical approaches to working with families at the conference, and at the
same time planning to uproot your own growing family and transport it half way
round the world, makes you reflect on your own experience of families. Of
course, writing about these events many years after they occurred, and with all
the accrued experience of an old psychiatrist and family therapist also
provokes you into re-evaluating what you did and why, and the impact it may have
had on those surrounding you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">At one level to emigrate is easy. You apply for
visas, make sure you have up to date passports for everyone, and if possible
arrange for accommodation and work for after you arrive; all very logical. But
as humans we are feeling entities, and our links with others are crucial to our
wellbeing. Our sense of who we are as individuals in the world derives in part
from our family history and the place our forebears created for themselves.
Much of that information may not necessarily be discussed in detail, or even
openly, but in many families you will hear a variant on the phrase: “This is
how we do things.” This may simply be a shortened form of “This is how your
mother and I have decided we do things.” Or it can be so much more:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“This is how generations of my family have
done things, and your mother agrees we should continue those traditions” (or
some variant).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">You may only find out about such things if you
challenge the status quo explicitly or implicitly. An example mentioned much
earlier in this book might be my episode of stealing some money simply because
I came across it. My father took to me with a leather belt, and I must admit
the shock of that had a profound effect. I was only to learn much later that
his father had belted him, and my great grandfather had belted my grandfather
(and all much more violently than I was ever treated). Apparently that is what
fathers did to stop emerging aberrant behaviour. As Jan and I began our own
family, I determined I would never resort to violence. And I have not (unless
you count the fact that the whole family was to learn Karate to a high
standard! But that is as much defensive as offensive, isn’t it?)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I think my parents leaving for Australia when I
was 16 led me to appreciate family life in the Hughes family. I saw how
respectfully they treated each other, and there never seemed to be much in the
way of friction in their partnership. Jan’s parents were gentle people, and I
admired that and wanted it for my own future family. I believe Jan and I have
achieved that.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">But my parents also took Andrea with them. There had
always been that seven-year age gap, and ultimately I did not have the
opportunity to begin to appreciate her as a person until she had finished
University and begun teaching my two boys <span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">at St. Nicholas School, coming often to stay
at Old Gates. Andrea had </span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">rented the top flat at Kingsmead Court from Bobby and Reg, and had a
flat mate. She was also close to</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> an aunt of Bobbie’s (through marriage) who had a rented flat at
Kingsmead. Andy developed a strong relationship with her, and I was to be ever
grateful to Auntie Kate for her love and support of Andrea.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The sad thing is that our own mother missed so
much of our lives at the point when both Andrea and I were developing our professional
careers. My father also missed out, but for different reasons. As might have
been expected he was very lonely as a widower at 50, even though his post Royal
Air Force career at the British Aircraft Corporation in Bristol was
all-consuming. Very quickly after Eve died, he picked up with a Winifred Moss
who, rather strangely, had been a patient of mine at Birchington. She was a
divorcee with two daughters, one of whom became a University <span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">lecturer, and
the adopted daughter a nurse. Ted and Win were married on 27 July 1971 at
Margate Registry Office, 13 months after our Eve died.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Winifred was a very anxious woman, with low self-esteem. Rather
than taking pride in her parentage, she hated the fact that she had been born a
miner’s daughter and worked hard to change her accent and social manners,
educating herself to the point of completing a teaching degree, and developing a
social circle of friends who played bridge and enjoyed ballet and the opera.
She never talked about her family of origin. She was also a very jealous woman
and rather quickly eradicated memories of our mother around the Long Ashton house
and subsequently in several moves of house (even though Ted kept a small
private collection of precious memorabilia in an old suitcase right through to
his death at the age of 93).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">She also distanced Ted from the May side of the family, and bit by
bit alienated the extended Martin side of the family who found her controlling
ways intolerable and used to tell and retell stories and laugh behind her back.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Andrea was still financially dependant as a
teenager and a university student, and experienced more contact and therefore
more frequent difficulties. Being gradually cut off from her father must have
been awful. I had less contact with Win, being wrapped up in my practice and
family. But both Andy and I became part of the alienation process; we both
loathed her ‘la-de-da’ ways and the subtle nastiness.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I am sure I added to Andrea’s woes with the
decision to emigrate. Even though I had never really been available as an older
brother, perhaps during those years from 1970 through to 1974 I had begun to
take on some of that role. And then we left, and Andrea had to deal with losing
her emerging closeness to Jan, and her love and care for our two boys. It was
to be many years before I really came to appreciate how difficult it must have
been for her with virtually no supports, and a rather evil stepmother who would
much later cause immense financial problems before she passed away. I am sure I
owe my sister an enormous apology for not being aware of these things, but our
primary bonds had been broken 9 or so years before when I was 16 and she a 10
year old – ironically when she left with our parents for Australia. The newly
developed 1970s bonds were only tenuous. It was not to be until recent years
that those bonds have been strengthened, despite the enormous geographic
distance between Australia and the UK.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-40415923286776494252017-05-12T13:33:00.002+10:002017-05-12T13:33:30.716+10:00Haiku on Long/ Slip/ Point/ Turn/ Sad<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center;">
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'Sippy'<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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frown deepened<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Paul Simon<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Life's a chain letter<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">We're in a downturn<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Ethereal landscape art<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-786712523437942172017-05-12T13:18:00.004+10:002017-05-12T13:18:43.696+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (75) The General Practitioner (20); Blue Sky Dreaming<div class="MsoNormalCxSpFirst" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto;">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">In early 1973, we found out that Jan
was pregnant again, with the new baby due in late October. We were, of course,
ecstatic and perhaps hoping for a girl. The pregnancy was going well, but Jan
and I had not had a break for a long time and, although we were struggling a
bit financially, we felt in need of a holiday. We just wanted to go somewhere
and have some time together. Bobby and Reg said that they would be very happy
to look after the boys for a time, even though they were still quite young with
Jonathan a bit older than 5, and Roderick only just 3. We thought that they
would be safe with grandparents with whom they had had a lot of contact, and
would be unlikely to fret as long as they had each other.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">I found a conference that looked quite
interesting, and would allow us to defray the costs as professional expenses.
Sounding plausible at the time, this was to be the beginning of a way of professional
life – finding relevant conferences in exotic destinations around the world and
wrapping a holiday around the event and/or a presentation. </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Part
of the rationale was that I was enjoying my part time child psychiatry sessions
but, within that, the most exciting aspect was working with families of the
referred children, and beginning to have a language to describe what I thought
I might be doing, and a range of techniques to use at appropriate moments. I
was not a psychotherapist as such, had no idea what a whole conference on
psychotherapy might be like, did not want to attend the whole thing anyway because
I wanted to spend time with Jan, and assumed there may be some side events and
visits for delegates that would make life fun for the two of us. The bonus was
that neither of us knew anything about Norway, so sightseeing might be fun. </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Overall, the event was to be immensely
influential in changing the direction of our lives.</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The 9<sup>th</sup>
<span style="background: white; color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">International </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Congress</span><span style="background: white; color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;"> of </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Psychotherapy</span><span style="background: white; color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">, </span>
“What is Psychotherapy?” was held in <span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Oslo</span><span style="background: white; color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">, </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Norway</span><span style="background: white; color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;"> June 25-30, </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">1973. When I had originally come across the conference in the psychiatric
journal advertisement, the title had suggested it would be good starting point
for a novice trying to do psychotherapy. In fact it ended up being an
international window onto a plethora of approaches to working with people
struggling with their mental health, and I was to be totally blown away. If I
had thought I had begun to understand ways of helping recovery in my
psychiatric registrar year at King’s, and rediscovering the joys of working
towards understanding and change during my Canterbury days, this conference
made me feel like a child in a sweet shop with only 6 pence to spend and an
overwhelming choice of delights from which to choose. I had thought my early
reading of my two books by Freud and Adler and later a textbook on psychiatry,
might have given me a good grounding, but there was so much across the 6 days I
just did not understand; the terminology was novel, the ideas complex, and some
of it went way over my head.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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of the main Keynotes was an American called Thomas Szasz, from the United
States. Of course, as with most of the speakers, I did not recognise his name
and was not aware he was at the centre of a storm about the definition and
management of mental health problems. His keynote got a mixed reception, and I
had not realised that people actually heckled international speakers. There
were others whose work eventually became part of my vocabulary and
understanding. But generally speaking I was overwhelmed by the ideas, the
numerous different forms of psychotherapy, the fact that people had actually
written about working with couples, working with families, working with
intergenerational families (ie including grandparents and perhaps others), and
the arguments about it all.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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fell in with a bunch of happy and somewhat noisy Australians who were about our
age. A couple of them presented and, dutifully, we went to hear them speak.
Again, there was much I did not understand, but they seemed to know what they
were talking about, and the arguments went on way past the end of sessions and
back at the hotel. And they just accepted and began to include us in
activities. At some stage we went on a fjord boat trip, a wonderfully peaceful
event except that fiery and enthusiastic discussions erupted about the speakers
the day before. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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had opted to go on a tour to an inpatient clinic doing therapy with families of
children with problems. It was a single storey modern purpose built building of
wood and glass set in beautiful surrounds; not like Lanthorne House at all. Outside
it was chilly, of course, even though it was technically summer. Inside was
cosy and warm as with most Norwegian buildings. The openness of families and
staff members to talk about their experiences, the bilingual ability of even
the children, and the enthusiasm for something vaguely called ‘family therapy’
was impressive. And it suggested possibilities for the future. What if I could
become that skilled? What if I could become involved in such an innovative and effective
clinical program?<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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dinner was at the 13<sup>th</sup> century </span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Akershus
Castle near Oslo, and included an historical tour of the royal chambers,
mausoleums, and the old prison area with guides who had the usual impeccable
English. Like most castles, it was cold, dark and draughty with lots of steps
going round and round in the towers. As I remember, we were both grateful to
leave the tour a bit early and retire for pre-dinner drinks. I think by the
time we got to the dinner, Jan had had enough of being away from home and of
listening to people talk about therapy. She had taken several afternoons off to
go shopping or to get a nap before dinner. Conferences (as we began to
understand over the years) are often a trial of stamina, and while my excitement
had buoyed me to attend as much as I possible could, I did have some
appreciation of how pregnancy can affect stamina, even if I missed my constant
companion.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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and my overall excitement at the prospect of continuing on a steep learning
curve in psychotherapy. Somehow our almost instant resonance with the
Australian group seemed to be one more piece of the puzzle as to whether we
should leave general practice and take up the offer of a job in Adelaide. We
talked about what we might gain, but also all that we would lose by leaving
family and friends, and the security that had been our place in the Birchington
general practice. I was aware that Jan might have much more to lose than I. The
excitement of a new job would take me over, but Jan’s would be the shoulders on
which the responsibility might land for sustaining our family life and making a
new home. There was a slight advantage in the fact we had spent three months in
Adelaide 10 years before. And maybe there would be some support from family
even though they were mainly in Sydney and Melbourne. Once home, and reunited
with our two sons, we spent time talking through the possibilities with Reg and
Bobby. They, of course, were very positive even if they had major reservations
about their Jan living half way around the world. Ultimately the decision was
made, and I wrote a formal letter to Jeff Gerard asking to take up his offer of
a job from January 1975. We had about 17 months to get all the arrangements
made.</span></span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-27548700275073200332017-05-07T16:50:00.001+10:002017-05-07T16:50:13.487+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (74) The General Practitioner (19); Blue Sky Dreaming<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I scoured the medical and psychiatric
journals looking for possible registrar training positions in psychiatry. The
issue with the English jobs was the salary; slightly less than half what I
earned as a GP. We discussed the issue, and neither of us thought it was a good
option to give up our house and job and go back into some sort of struggling
penury. I discussed it with Ken Fraser, and I know he was on the lookout for
possible jobs that might suit me. But nothing came up on his radar either. So
that was that.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I decided to focus on general practice,
and had some discussions with a GP colleague David Diggens who was also a Round
Tabler and godfather to Rod, our second son. David had been gearing up to take
the examination for Membership of the Royal College of General Practitioners
(MRCGP), and although his wife and partner Elizabeth was not taking the exam at
the time, she was helping with the coaching. The Membership sounded like a good
idea, I had served enough time in practice to qualify to take the written paper
so, over a couple of months, David and I did some joint studying, reviewed past
papers, and applied to take the exam. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">We travelled up to
London together, and went to 14, Princes Gate in Kensington (at that time the
headquarters for the College). I have to admit the examination process is now very
vague. As I remember it, there was only one paper. It addressed both some
general practice organisational matters, but also a range of clinical
situations. Surprisingly there was quite a lot of psychiatry, and that made me
feel quite comfortable. But in other areas, I now had a wealth of case based
knowledge, and was able to respond to the questions using real life examples
and experiences. The same was true at interview with the three examiners. They
had case based scenarios for discussion with a range of questions to be
addressed. I emerged from the interview believing I had done reasonably well. In
due course I was delighted to receive a letter to say I had passed, and asking
whether I would be attending the ceremony in London – which on this occasion I
could not. My certificate of Membership arrived through the post a couple of
months later.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle">
<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The membership would
have made little difference to how I worked in General Practice, but was an
important marker that I had the knowledge and experience to be a member of yet
another Royal College. Sadly, I was never to take the next step and seek
Fellowship of the College. Events took their own course, and life changed
direction.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle">
<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Looking back, I
realise that in many ways I have been a life long and somewhat obsessive collector.
Since childhood I had a thirst for knowledge, and collected the names of books
I had read, attempting to read everything a particular author had written. This
transferred to Medicine, and I continue to this day with a need to read widely
around clinical issues with which I am confronted. In General Practice, I
devoured the two journals I received each month, as I do with the journals I
currently receive. Ultimately step by step, I collected an impressive list of
diplomas and degrees throughout my career as a doctor. Most of the letters
after my name have now been discarded as being no longer relevant to modern day
practice, there is not enough wall space in my study for all the certificates,
and mostly they have taken up a new life of filling cupboards. All of the
precious medical and psychiatric books collected along the way have had a
similar fate. They are displayed in author order on the overfilled bookshelves,
only occasionally being taken down to fact check, or derive a quotation. Nobody
reads books any more, or wants to collect them in this electronic age when the
old style libraries are dying and all knowledge is available electronically in brief
quotes or sound bites, or as a downloaded .pdf or eBook. But I am getting ahead
of my story.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle">
<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Another example would
be my stamp collection, such as it is, mainly focused on Great Britain and
Australia. Begun in childhood with a stamp album from Joan and Harry as a gift
for being a 4 year old pageboy at their wedding, it has grown in fits and
starts. When I was in the final six months building up to finals, I had an
obsession with particular issues, and began to buy job lots at auction which
required immense and focussed sorting – far more important than the textbooks I
should have been completing. A distraction, yet one which may have kept me sort
of sane. In general practice, I had another episode of philately, beginning to
collect British first day covers, which were published in a prolific manner for
all sorts of national events. I had a subscription to continue with this for
many years. The covers, like the albums and bags of stamp miscellany, are
carefully stored in a dry place awaiting the next set of exams in life and the intense
need for distraction that comes with them. There is a vague fantasy connected
with my grandfather ‘Pop’ Martin. In his 80s he focused on his large stamp
collection, and stamp by stamp sold them to the highest bidder at auction. I
had always shared my own passion with him whenever we got together. Perhaps I
had a fantasy he might leave the collection to me – the only other known Martin
philatelist. But that was never to be. I do believe he supplemented his pension
very well at the time; perhaps I could emulate him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">It was in the British
Journal of Psychiatry I came across an advertisement for a registrar training job
in Child Psychiatry. Whoever got the job was expected to join the Postgraduate
Psychiatry Training Program. The problem was that it was in Adelaide, South
Australia at the Children’s Hospital. The pay appeared to be generous by
British standards, with all the ancillary benefits. I broached the topic with
Jan, and we talked for days about the implications for our wonderfully settled
lifestyle and the plans we had made for the future of our boys, the
implications for extended family, and the possibility of leaving our beautiful
home. Jan knew I had been keen to get back into psychiatry, and this looked
like a promising option, but the upheaval was unthinkable. Strangely, we had
had the experience of spending three months in Adelaide in 1963 so, at one
level, it was not a totally strange city. There was a sense of fate taking a
hand in our lives. If it had been another city, perhaps we would not have given
it a second thought.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Ultimately, drawing a shared deep
breath, we decided to apply, to see what happened. It sounded like a grand adventure
and, if it did not work out, we always had the option of returning to England. I
worked on my CV to bring it up to date, and sent a letter off with copies of
memberships and certificates to the Director of Psychiatry, a Dr. Jeffrey
Gerard. The response was encouraging. The job had already been allocated for
the 1974 year to a local doctor (a Dr. Kerry Callaghan, with whom I was to
become quite close later on). But the letter suggested I might be interested in
taking the job for calendar year 1975 – which of course would allow plenty of time
to arrange sponsorship, visas, travel and accommodation. It would also allow a
suitable planned withdrawal and handover to a new GP for Birchington.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-52911096858321417582017-05-06T14:17:00.000+10:002017-05-06T17:22:40.144+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (73) The General Practitioner (18); Characters<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="color: #1a1a1a;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Amongst my many treasures, I have
an etching by a Nicholas van Haeften (1663-1715). It is called ‘The Physician’
and dated 1697 and copies exist in several museums including the Rijksmuseum in
Holland. It is incredibly evocative of the patient weariness of those waiting
to be seen, and the gauntness of the physician struggling to assist. It was a
gift from a nurse who ran an Old Peoples’ home in Birchington to which I was
called in every week or so to check on residents or renew medications. I had
quite enjoyed the visits over time, getting to know many of the residents even
though some were a little moribund. The matron seemed very competent and
caring, and I never had occasion to doubt the quality of her care and
sincerity. Just as one marker of care, in all my time I never saw a case of bedsores.
The home also had the support of our own district nurses, and I know they had
always been impressed. The occasional chesty cough during the winter months,
and the occasional story of aches and pains were all I had to listen to. There
were no serious falls to attend to, no terminal choking fits. So the job was
easy really. All finished off with a biscuit and a cup of tea, of course.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Jill was in her 50s, and never
really spoke of any family life except a reverence for her father who had been
a long-term surgeon in the navy and had toured much of the Far East. Clearly he
and his career were revered, and I was always happy to listen to stories of his
exploits. From time to time I would share recent bits of family life and
exploits of our two sons, or tell her of the latest exploits of Margate Round
Table or my contact with the Freemasons. Jill’s father, of course, had been a
freemason. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">When Jill found out I was playing
with the idea of leaving Birchington after 4 years and possibly taking up a
career in psychiatry, she was upset and it took a lot of work to assure
her that, if it happened, I would make it my business to hand over carefully to
my successor and make sure they were primed. The van Haeften was a parting gift,
along with a small exquisite watercolour painting by a Japanese artist
Ginnosuke Tasuke </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Yokouchi (</span></span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="color: #222222;">1870-1942)</span><span style="color: #1a1a1a;">. Bot</span></span><span style="color: #1a1a1a; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">h had been treasures belonging to her father, and
she said she knew that he would want me to ‘take them on my travels’ as a
constant reminder of his dedication to his patients. Ultimately, the Yokouchi
led to a passion for Japanese watercolours by GT. They are ethereal, and
evocative. I now own nine of them (purchased over the years from the Internet),
and wake every morning to look at three of them that evoke the head of a river,
a bend in the same river much lower down, and a harbour full of boats which
emerge from the background the longer you look. All three have areas of the
same reddish colouring which seems to link them together. I have no idea
whether they were painted as a series, but that is how they impact on me.
Exquisite otherworldly beauty to start the day, for which I thank Jill and her
father. I hope I have done his memory proud even if our two careers were
separated by a generation and poles apart in scope.</span><br />
<span style="color: #1a1a1a; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">There is an issue in here for doctors; that of accepting gifts. Perhaps as a GP it is </span><span style="color: #1a1a1a; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">acceptable to simply smile and say 'thank you' given there are few implications with regard to preferential treatment. And I always felt that it could be very rude not to acknowledge that people were genuinely thankful for the care you had provided, even if it was your job. I was later to learn that for a psychiatrist it can take on other implications, and the generally accepted wisdom is that it may skew your therapy in providing some obligation to your patient which may halt you saying something adverse (but therapeutic) at an appropriate time. It's complicated.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Another character to mention is
Len Head who had developed a business in wood, partitions and the building
trade. He lived at Whitstable but for some reason had become attached to our
practice. Initially he was with one of the senior partners, but came to see me
a couple of times and seemed to like my style. He had recurrent asthma, and
with changes in the seasons would need additions to his regular medications. In
addition, he used oxygen. He had developed a theory that when the barometric
pressure was high, asthmatics found it harder to get enough oxygen. The
solution was to have a small cylinder at home and use it if conditions
deteriorated. I had never heard such a story, and the way Len told it sounded
slightly eccentric (shall we say). But I organised his prescription, and from
time to time he would be back for another session. These were always hilarious;
he had a fund of genuinely funny jokes, and lots of other eccentric ideas that
largely amounted to him telling this young doctor how to be good at his job. I
took it all in good part, and bit by bit we became friends. At some stage, we
found ourselves talking about playing bridge. Apparently both Len and his wife
enjoyed the game but could not find enough partners; would Jan and I like to
play one evening? I checked it out with Jan, and she was reluctant given her
bridge experience was a bit limited. Her family had played a wide range of card
games over the years, but bridge was never part of that. Of course, given my
medical school card-playing experiences, I had taught her the rudiments on
evenings at home, and we had played social bridge from time to time with
friends. I thought that might be enough, and eventually she agreed.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Len said that finding his place in
Whitstable was bit a bit complicated, and the best solution would be for him to
pick us up and go to their place for dinner and bridge and then they would drop
us home. All a bit odd, but we acquiesced. On the appointed evening, the baby
sitter arrived shortly before a Rolls Royce slid into Coleman’s Stairs and
pulled up outside Old Gates. I am glad it was Len driving, given the squeeze,
and the nearness of our rough hewn flint walls. We were both a bit bowled over,
and inwardly I shuddered at the possibility of scraping a door as we climbed
in. We had not met Len’s wife, and the opening conversation in this rolling
barn of a space was a bit stilted. The house was a mansion, the dinner was a
superb set of creations, conversation eventually glittered as a couple of
expensive wines oiled the interaction. The bridge was quite ordinary, given
Len’s wife was somewhat new to the game, but we all had a good time – and they
won (always a good result on first meetings). And a month later, the Roller
returned to be parked at our place while we hosted them. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">At about the same time in our
lives, I had been approached by Mensa to see whether I would be able to be a
local secretary for East Kent? That all sounds very grand, but I was assured it
would not take up too much time, but might involve holding an occasional social
gathering at home to welcome new members. I suppose I was flattered. I probably
should not have been, but when momentous shifts are emerging in your life, and when
you are uncertain about what direction to take, it takes a toll and times of
anxiety and loss of self-confidence can occur.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">It was that scenario that had led
to my joining Mensa in the first place. I had been struggling for some months
in the lead up to finals in medicine, and was convinced I was going to fail. In
retrospect I think my moods must have been partly driven by the fact that both
Jan and I had shared Glandular Fever over a six week period, much of it spent
sleeping. I did not recognise my depression as such, but just dragged on day by
day. I was walking down a street one day and came across a sign on the pathway
advertising Mensa and its test. I was intrigued, and thought it might be a good
idea. If I passed (which I doubted), then that might give me confidence to do
my finals. If I failed then I would give the whole thing up and ‘go and get a
proper job’. I argued with myself, but eventually did the test. When the result
came, welcoming me to Mensa as a member, I though it was an error, and phoned
the offices to double check. There was no error. So it acted as a turning
point. I renewed my study efforts (having probably now somewhat recovered from
our shared illness), and the rest is history.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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and became the East Kent LocSec. Enthusiastic to get going I wrote a letter of
invitation to all the members on the local list supplied, and offered an
afternoon tea at Old Gates. About 10 people turned up and over the next two
hours, an awkward and very stilted conversation got going. We came from a wide
variety of backgrounds and occupations, and these days I would probably label
the vast majority of the members as ‘introverts’. There seemed to be little
common ground, except that everyone had a large number attached to their membership.
It was a non-starter, in many ways a disaster, and one of the most boring
afternoons that Jan and I had ever had. Apparently (as I am sure is evident to
everyone else) a high IQ does not guarantee a social personality or a sense of
humour. Perhaps they too had all joined when they were depressed, just to prove
something to themselves. We were to hold a second event some months later to
welcome two new members, and to prove that the first occasion was ‘just one of
those days’. It wasn’t, and we never tried again. It has always seemed like a
missed opportunity; supposing all those minds had found some common socially
minded purpose? What could we have achieved? I never did find out.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-10339389123335447572017-05-04T17:17:00.003+10:002017-05-04T17:17:37.358+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (72) The General Practitioner (17); Characters<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a;">Of course some characters exist within your own family,
and leave indelible marks on your lives. As I write, I am sitting not far from
a grand piano made by </span><span style="color: #6a6a6a;">John</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #545454;"> Broadwood & Sons,
reputed to be the oldest established </span><span style="color: #6a6a6a;">piano</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #545454;"> manufacturer in the World
today. It is elderly, I have had to replace several of the ivory keys, I
understand that it has a small crack in the sounding board, and it is badly in
need of tuning. But it made its way to Australia as a bequest to our family from
an aunt and uncle of Jan’s, is much loved and finds itself in service now to
our own children and grandchildren.</span></span></div>
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aunt Elsie earlier, but in their own way they were larger than life characters
and highly influential in our lives. Elsie came from German stock, with paternal
grandfather Kneller and his family migrating to England in the late 18<sup>th</sup>
century. However, on the other side her father Wilhelm Hanneman had been born
in Potsdam, Germany in 1880 and migrated to England prior to his marriage in
1904. Of course this side of the family had been treated with deep suspicion
during both World Wars, and menfolk had been interned for the duration. Elsie (b.
1912) never talked about this, but we always had a sense that her mother and
six children had struggled both financially and as a result of prejudice during
her husband’s internment during World War 2. Rather strangely, Elsie’s older
sister Frances had married Will the oldest of the five Hughes brothers in 1934,
and Elsie married the third son Laurie. Although subsequently Laurie and Elsie
were unable to have children of their own, they had a special bond with Brian
and Roy, Will’s two sons and their families.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">But they were also very caring of
Jan and her sisters who got to see quite a lot of their uncle and aunt,
especially at Christmas when Laurie had penchant for playing Father Christmas
to the gathered Hughes family all staying at a wintering Kingsmead Court. From
my perspective, I found it delightful and at times overwhelming to be included
in such a large extended family – all of whom enjoyed each others’ company.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">At some stage Laurie had been a
fully trained as an accredited driving instructor. So as Jan and her older
sister got to driving age, Laurie took them over and with infinite patience and
gentle encouragement trained them to be lifelong careful drivers. In due course
he accepted me into the circle, and imparted his wisdoms for safe driving. None
of us had trouble passing the formal test and gaining a licence to drive. And I
still retain some of the tricks he taught me in the context of fast cornering,
wet conditions or gravel on the road. Such patience. Such gentility. Such care.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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factory on the Margate Industrial Estate for many years; the same Hornby that I
used to pass almost every day on the bus going to school each morning. There
were often a number of people descending at the bus stop, and joining others
swarming to the gates. I guess I had the link back to my old Hornby train set
from when I was 8 years old, so I knew what at least one of the end products
was. But I wondered what they all did every day. Laurie had risen to a Manager
status, and was apparently much loved. This, of course was no surprise to us;
he was always jovial, enthusiastic, happy and laughing at family gatherings.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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advantages to working in a factory that made model trains, is that someone has
to try everything out. Over the years, Laurie had acquired a very large
collection with literally miles of tracks. When I was in my teens, he would
promise to take me up into the roof space of his chalet bungalow to view the
layout, but we were always too busy, and perhaps I thought I had to be a bit
too cool for toy trains (despite the fact that to the present day I have never
been able to bring myself to relinquish my own clockwork Hornby set). Or there
were other excuses, like it needed a good clean before Elsie would approve a
visit. Later, when I was in general practice, somehow it seemed a bit juvenile,
or frankly there just was too little time. And sadly, our two boys were too
little to climb ladders into a hole in the ceiling. But I always wish that I
had pressed the issue.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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each other, always referencing something the other had said, or touching while
making a comment; brilliant examples of how to run a long tem relationship.
They were also a bit eccentric (shall we say). Every single morning, rain or
shine, winter or summer they would walk the half mile down to the beach and
have a brief swim and then walk back for showers and breakfast. Perhaps that is
in part why they both lived well into their 90s.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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had taught generations of young people, including Jan. She had been much in
demand for performances. Later she had a whim to play the harpsichord. Laurie
found one he could make from a kit which duly arrived by parcel post, and with
the careful precision of a highly trained engineer, he assembled it over time,
cutting each key and creating each hammer, and even creating a small design in
the sounding board which included their intertwined initials. The idea had been
to have a harpsichord that was portable enough to travel. They bought a small
van to take the very carefully protected harpsichord on a specially padded roof
rack and would travel from festival to festival but especially to the annual
Aldeburgh Festival in Suffolk. On arrival, Laurie would set up and tune the
instrument, and then bring out a range of recorders, and he and Elsie would
become part of an orchestra. In addition, they both had good singing voices and
would join in the choral activities. They were much in demand.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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a mention. Laurie and Elsie were life long animal lovers. Many people are of
course, but they sometimes took it to extremes. In fact, if any bird in
Birchington was found with a broken wing, Laurie was well known as the ‘go to’
man. You might go into the kitchen to assist in the making of a cup of tea, and
find a couple of guinea pigs nudging the biscuit barrel. There were birds in
cages, both indoors and out. I am told that in the past, Laurie and Elsie had
agreed to look after a young lion cub in their flat in London, and on another
occasion a pet monkey. These were way before my time, but make for a
fascinating story connected to two beautiful human beings who loved life and
each other, and provided striking role models for Jan and I.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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in English villages all around the country are amazing characters with
fascinating histories and stories to tell. One such man in his early 50s was an
artist of whom Birchington locals were in some awe; either that or they
dismissed him as slightly mad. I first came across him in the high street one
morning after surgery.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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into the local greengrocer’s. That was always just a little bit complicated,
and whenever I was in the village I always carried my prescription pad in my
pocket. Sure enough, after I had ordered what we needed and ‘the girl’ was
wrapping it all up, in front of the other customers the greengrocer used those
fateful words: “While you're here, Doc… You know that eye ointment you
prescribed? Could I possibly have some more – if you have your pad with you?” I
chuckled. This was an old game, and one to be played lightheartedly. Of course,
I said, pulling out my pen and pad and suffering visions of the rest of the queue
lining up for me rather than the oranges. “ Have you got the old tube with
you?” “Sure have” he responded, reaching deep into a pocket with a slightly
grubby hand. I did the necessary and turned to find a couple with somewhat
bemused smiles. Perhaps they were new to the village.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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by a vision in a dark purple velvet suit with a wide brimmed matching hat and
silver boots. He was being dragged along by a Great Dane and a Wolfhound both
straining at the leash, while a tiny Yorkshire terrier scurried along behind.
There was no acknowledgment or apology; just the onward progress of someone
living in his own world, someone I came to know had been (and maybe still was) a
bit of a local rake. This was Henry Campbell, larger than life artist in the
style of da Vinci, and local icon. It was probably a year before I got to know much
about him; in part because we were engrossed in our own lives, but also because
he and his family were patients of John’s.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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house just round the corner from us. They had made suitable conversions,
employed a number of young teachers, and ran an English language school for the
children of wealthy parents from the Middle East. From time to time the
students were seen in small groups in the village but mostly kept to
themselves, and were rarely ill. I understand the school had a very good
reputation. In part this was due to Cynthia (or ‘Cyn’ as she preferred to be
called). Hers was the steadying hand; she was the organiser.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Henry did much of the negotiation, and taught
some subjects, but at times would disappear or simply be unable to teach. I was
only called round to the school on a couple of occasions, but gradually came to
know and enjoy the company of Henry and Cyn. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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War, and was left severely traumatised. Almost immediately the war was over, he
sought out a Benedictine order of monks with the intent of becoming one of
their number. The order must have suited his needs for solitude, and had an
ability to heal, because over some years, Henry began to recover. I believe it
was during this time that he began to write about his life, but more than that
he discovered his talent for music and art. Like many, he was intrigued by the
old masters, and fascinated by their techniques. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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spent several years in Italy learning his craft from a long tradition of
artists. His paintings of that era seem to be full of exquisite and glowing still
life. But behind that his skill at drawing was profound, and highly reminiscent
of the da Vinci school. He attempted somewhat obsessively to stick as closely
as possible to Da Vinci’s original methods. So sketches were transferred to
canvas using pinprick. All paint was made from the original pigments, using egg
yolk and water (Egg Tempera). Henry sought authenticity in all things. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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foot pedal organ, and now cannot remember whether it was a gift. I am pretty
sure I did not buy it at auction. My memory is that it came as part of a job
lot with an extremely large and solid 16 person leaved solid oak table, with
turned legs from a couple who were downsizing and moving. I guess they thought that
if our house could accommodate the table, then the organ would always find a
place; which it did. It was the sort of small (but not exactly portable) organ
you may have seen in small country churches. I can’t really think why I
accepted, except it was rather unique and idiosyncratic, and we had a large
house to fill and did not own a piano. Perhaps there were fantasies of having Jan
pick up her music again, or of the boys learning to play music. There were a
couple of minor mechanical problems that need work, but it was usable.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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of my home visits, and he was intrigued enough to ask to come round to the
house ‘to see what he could do to fix it’. True to his word, he appeared at the
front door early one evening, and was shown to ‘the blue room’ accompanied by
two shy little boys. They watched fascinated as he tried the organ out, pulled
various </span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">stops<span style="color: #1a1a1a;"> and proceeded to </span><span style="color: black; mso-themecolor: text1;">play Bach’s </span></span><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ho9rZjlsyYY"><span style="color: black; text-decoration: none;">Toccata and Fugue in D Minor</span></a><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">. Old Gates and the neighbours would
have would have heard nothing like that before or since. I had this momentary
vision of a mad monk in full robes back in his monastery. It was thrilling,
overwhelming and deeply emotional.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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that ‘to play the organ’, often watched by wide-eyed boys. Out of the blue he
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ochre drawings in High Renaissance style (and treasured to this day). </span></span><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">From time to time in conversation he would broach
small bits of his history, particularly after he learned that my father and his
brothers and their father had all served in the RAF. I wish I could have shared with
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on an RAF</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">manual that Pop had developed between
the wars and from which Henry may well have been trained; but this was a piece
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worst bits of Henry’s story, but he always left cheerfully, whistling down the
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-82597379968951558652017-04-13T13:30:00.003+10:002017-05-02T13:36:23.461+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (70) The General Practitioner (15); A bit more Child Psychiatry +<div class="MsoNormalCxSpFirst">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">In supervision Ken opened up the idea of whether I should consider
child psychiatry as a career. There was no pressure; just a collegiate
discussion.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was aware I had only done
one year of fulltime psychiatry, and therefore could not take the exams for the
newly chartered Royal College of Psychiatrists, the former </span><span style="color: #222222; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Royal
Medico-Psychological Association (for which I was already an associate member).
Exams would require a further year of full time work in psychiatry to meet the
basic requirement. But he thought it might be worthwhile taking the Diploma in
Psychological Medicine examination for the Royal College of Physicians, which
only required one year of full time work (already completed at King’s). He saw
it as useful for the future if I ever decided to change career direction. I
assured him</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> I was happy in General Practice (which I was). But
the discussion troubled me.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Some weeks later he asked if I
might be interested in going up to London with him to a weekend of updates in
clinical child psychiatry. Technically it was for consultants, but he was
certain it would be fine for me to attend. I think he thought I might be
company on the drive up and back, but now know he was being somewhat devious
(bless him). <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was intrigued and
excited, if a bit nervous. Once again I was conflicted, taking time away from
the family to follow my personal interests. But Jan was excited for me, and fully
supportive (as always), encouraging me to go. I had no details, and had no idea
what to expect.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">The meeting was at the Maudsley,
just across the road from King’s. It was a surprisingly small group of people,
with 15 of us packed into a seminar room. In my naïve state, I was taken round
and introduced to all these people whose names meant little to me at the time –
including Michael Rutter, <span style="color: black; mso-themecolor: text1;">Christopher
Dare and Bill Yule, as well as </span></span><span style="background: white; color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">Philip Graham</span><span style="color: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-themecolor: text1;">.
All four presented recent research and provoked</span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> lively discussion about the
implications. I had never heard of the Isle of Wight studies, but they were to
become highly influential over the years, as was so much other work done by
Michael Rutter. Bill Yule talked about the use of various forms of behaviour
therapy with children, and I found this refreshing and clear. I really liked
the man and his approach, and (even though I was no longer in the UK by that
time), I was suitably impressed many years later when it was he in charge of
the psychological work after the cross channel ferry disaster. Chris Dare was
also impressive, even though at that stage he was a registrar (I believe);
enthusiastic and engaging he talked about some approaches to working with
families, perhaps presaging his later seminal work with family therapy and
young people with Anorexia. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">What intrigued me as much as
anything was the free and inclusive discussion after papers, and clearly these illustrious
professionals welcomed feedback, even from a total unknown. It was heady and,
with the benefit of hindsight, it clearly turned my head.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I ended up determined to follow
Ken’s suggestion of completing my DPM. So I set about investigating processes,
dates and possible content and put in the application. In the meantime I found
a brief 2 day registrar workshop on General Psychiatry, which aimed to be a
final tune up for College exams. It was a great weekend covering a wide range
of topics, even if I was totally out of my depth. There was a multiple choice
exam at the end of the weekend - which was totally novel! I had never come
across such a thing. In addition to having to face this, rather weirdly the
scoring system did not just give marks for correct responses, but took off marks
for incorrect answers. I scored some idiotic number like 9 out of a possible
114! Perhaps I should have taken this as one of several omens that perhaps my
future career would not be as plain sailing as it might have been. But what I
did was to take every available minute to study across the whole age range of
psychiatry, and build up to the exam later that year.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I caught the train into London
and went back to Queen’s Square to take the papers. Nowhere near as anxious as
for my various final exams in medicine, I came out feeling I had done fairly
well. Luckily there was no multiple choice… <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">An odd thing happened on my way
home. I had bought a cheap day return ticket and arrived too late; the rush
hour had just begun, and on that ticket I would not have been allowed to travel
until about 7pm (without paying a premium). I was listening to the news in a
café and heard the breaking news of two bombs that had gone off near railway
stations in London. I was worn out by the travel and the exams, and did not need
the anxiety of sitting around waiting for the IRA to practice killing people.
From a public phone box I phoned Jan to tell her the story. Despite our slightly
struggling finances she agreed it would be best to pay the excess and catch the
next available train – which I did. It's a funny old world.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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and viva. The DPM would not get me consultant status anywhere, which was good
because I had far too little experience as yet. But it was a sign that I was
committed to trying to understand mental health and illness; and maybe that I
was on a pathway out of general practice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">A very odd thing happened about two months later. I received an
odd package through the post. The postman was unsure what it had in it, and
left a note in out letterbox to say he had left it on our concrete coal bin. It
was padded, but within you could feel various shapes both hard and soft that
made no sense. There were what appeared to be wires. I was slightly freaked, in
part because of my crazy Victoria station experience. I called our local
police, apologising for being a nuisance. A panda car came round to the house
with two grinning officers. Both felt the package, and not very convincingly
said they thought it was nothing serious. We scattered up the drive while one
of them got out a penknife and, holding the package at arms length, carefully
slit down one edge. Gingerly he pulled out the weirdest collection of ‘stuff’;
a bottle top, half a torn playing card, bits of unfinished poetry in a hand I
did not recognise, a used match and odd bits of disconnected wire. There was a
tiny noose made out of cotton. There was nothing coherent. The police left,
having smilingly patted me on the back; joking between themselves about the
story they had to tell. I was embarrassed, relieved, curious and perplexed. My
best bet, maybe surmised from a couple of bits of the handwriting, was that
Jenni had sent me a message. What it meant, I could not work out; perhaps a mix
of old anger and jettisoned bits of a despairing past. Unfortunately we were
never to meet again; follow up in those days was a bit limited given the small
numbers of child psychiatry professionals. I did find out in a roundabout way,
that Jenni had completed her nursing training, and had moved on to midwifery. I
hope she had a good life.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">At my third weekly visit, a young woman of 15 called Jenni was
discussed in the team meeting. She had attempted suicide at home following
recurrent arguments with her mother and was thought to be in serious danger.
She had only been in a couple of days, but no-one felt they had made any
headway in developing a relationship. She refused to talk, was sullen and
resentful and refused to leave her room even for meals, which were barely
touched even when brought to her room by a nurse prepared to sit with her. Night staff had reported she prowled around
the unit at night and they thought she was investigating avenues for escape.
The unit had always been secure with windows that had limited ability to open,
and access to the two lifts only available by key. These were worn on a lanyard
around the neck of staff members. To date I had not yet been trusted with my
own key and always had to ask a staff member to escort me into the lift and down
to the ground floor. There were external emergency stairs, but the door was
always locked, keys were kept in the charge nurse’s office, and I am not sure
that Fire Drills had ever been thought about.</span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">At the end of the meeting the charge nurse said that Dr. Fraser
had suggested to her it might be a good idea for me to attempt some sort of
therapy for Jenni; she did not look convinced. I simply said I would be
delighted to see her. I read through the referral letter, some comments by Ken
Fraser, and the daily nursing notes. There was a hint of angry trouble between
Jenni and her mother’s boyfriend, the father having left the family home some
years prior and not in contact.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I knocked on Jenni’s door, taking over the chair of a nurse who
had been sitting with her. I explained who I was and how I thought I might be
able to help. I told her that I had read through the notes, but people seemed
to be perplexed about what had led to her trying to take her mother’s tablets.
No comment or response. No eye contact. Not even a flicker of a reaction to
anything I said. Just a dead look straight ahead. We sat in not very
companionable silence, with me trying various speculations about what might
have happened, and how I imagined she may have felt. No response. The chair was
by a window, so I was able to look at treetops and distant roofs while trying
to find another avenue. After nearly an hour of trying I explained that I had
to leave, but that I would return the following week. In the meantime, I hoped
she would get lots of rest, and perhaps get to know one or more of the nurses.
No response.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I reported back to the charge nurse, and detected a hint of amused
satisfaction. Perhaps I made that up. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">The following week I had mulled over a number of
approaches, and thought it might be best to do some speculation based on my limited
experiences with suicidal people, bits and pieces I had read, and what little I
knew of adolescents. If I said something wrong she might correct me, and at
least that would be a response. If I challenged her, it might provoke her into
arguing; most adolescents seemed able to do that. Opening of a dialogue was the
critical issue. I have no idea where these ideas had come from given my limited
experience with psychiatric patients; perhaps it came from all the televised
dramas I had watched when I was an adolescent, or more likely from one of the
nursing staff during my year in psychiatry.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">But there had been high drama at Lanthorne. Jenni had
apparently dressed in street clothes, taken her suitcase, and casually joined
some parents of another child as they left the unit after a visit one lunchtime.
They were busy with their own discussion, and apparently did not give her a
second thought. Jenni had headed for the local cliffs where she sat for a while
‘thinking about her life’ (she was to tell me later). This was to be the lifesaver,
given it took time for her to be missed, her escape reported to the police, and
a hunt begun which included members of the Lanthorne staff. By the time people
found her, she had already thrown her case of belongings over the cliff. Eventually
one of our male nurses was able to talk her into staying, and returning to the
unit. He deserved a medal.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">After saying who I was and asking if it was OK to come
in (no response), I said “I will take that for a ‘Yes’, and entered (no
response, not even a look). I sat in the chair by the window, and started a one
sided conversation. I slowly recounted what I had been told, (“I understand
that…” - no response), said how glad I was that she ‘had decided not to jump’
(no response), and then quietly said: “I guess whatever has happened to you, it
was bad enough to make you really want to die.” “Do you still feel a bit like
that?” (no response). “I guess I will have to take that as a maybe…” There was
no response and Jenni remained silent, sullen and withdrawn, as staff reported
she had been all week. After a lengthy pause, I began to speculate. “My guess
is that someone has forced you to do something against your will, and you hate
them.” I sensed a subtle stiffening in Jenni’s posture, but she did not look up
or answer me. There was no denial, no explosion at me, so I took that as meaning
I might be on the right track. I let the silence lengthen. “My best guess is
that it was someone you trusted” (no response) “someone who should have known
better, perhaps” (no response) “someone you can’t talk about because if you did,
it might upset someone else, and you don’t want <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">that</i> person to be hurt.” (the silence lengthened). “Some of my
other patients have told me that the worst thing that can happen to you is to
have a serious argument going on inside your head. One you just can’t sort out.
And you know it will hurt you or someone else whatever you decide.” (no
response)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I looked outside the window for a while, and then back
at Jenni. There was nothing - not the flicker of an eyelid.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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a notebook open on your bedside table. And it was rude of me to notice, but I
saw that you like to draw little diagrams and pictures. I’ve brought you some
drawing paper, and some coloured art pencils I had not being used at home. I
know it can be really hard to talk, especially to a man, so I thought you might
like to draw instead.” I placed them on the very end of her bed, and said I
would be back next week. “I apologise that it will be a whole week, but I am
only able to come here once a week.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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letting her know I had left some art pencils and paper with Jenni given she was
finding it hard to talk. “I hope that is alright”. She smiled and suggested one
of the teachers on the ward might be interested in helping.<o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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clinics or patients. Was Jenni still alive? Had I been too pushy in my
approach? Could I have made things worse? Had she repeated the escape from the
locked unit? Of course I was relieved when I attended the Canterbury clinic,
and had 5 minutes to discuss her in supervision with Dr. Fraser. He asked where
the idea of artwork had come from, and I told him that both my parents had been
artists, and I had done some bits and pieces and some model-making as a
youngster, and had found it peaceful. He nodded, and reassured me that Jenni
had begun to take some part in ward activities, although she was still fairly
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been. After the staff meeting where nurses echoed Ken’s comments, I knocked on
the door, announced my presence and when there was no response, I went in.
Jenni was sitting in the same position staring straight ahead as if she had
been there all week. There was no acknowledgement or greeting. I said I hoped
she had had a better week, and then sat quietly waiting. Nothing happened, so I
asked if she had had a better week, or whether the ‘dark thoughts’ were still
troubling her as much? (No response). Eventually she leaned into her bedside,
and took out the drawing paper I had given her the previous week. She flung it
onto the bed, and then what looked like a piece of cardboard on top of it. Not
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had been painted black on one side. It had been carefully cut into to create a
design showing a face with tears running down a cheek set into a spider’s web –
not only evocative and dramatic, but very competently and carefully done. At
its bottom right hand corner, was Jenni’s name carved into the design. The
whole piece had been preserved by covering with a clear adhesive film.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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quite some artist. You could not tell us any more clearly what it feels like to
be you – trapped, and very distressed” I had to keep looking at it. She picked
up the cartridge paper pad and pushed it towards me. There was only one
complete painting, again very competently done. The lower part of a face stared
directly out, the lips tied together by straps with buckles on both sides. “And
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head down, and there were tears. “I understand.” (and more than that I could
feel her pain and confusion to the point of tears).</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">The following week in clinic, Ken asked me how I got on, and I
simply reported that the system was all new and might take me some time to
grasp, but I had sat in on a staff meeting, done the tour of the ward, met some
of the children and parents and “hoped I might be useful”. He smiled and
changed topic.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle">
<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">When I returned to Lanthorne, the first thing I noted as I came
out of the lift was a pile of faeces against one wall of the corridor. I found
a nurse who grumbled about ‘Peter doing his thing again’ and said she would
deal with it. I joined the meeting. They had completed two case discussions
despite the fact that I was not more than 5 minutes late after my diversion,
and again I was sat on the last available chair at the back. I listened
carefully to how the cases were handled and was impressed with some of the
changes reported in a couple of children to whom I had been introduced the
previous week. The teacher was particularly pleased with a sudden beginning of
excitement to learn in one of the children.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormalCxSpMiddle">
<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">When we got to Peter, the discussion seemed very limited; they had
‘a program’, and needed to keep it going. I felt obliged to briefly report what
I had seen on leaving the lift to cries of “Oh, not again…” and a couple of
smirks. One of the staff was clearly angry, and began with “That makes me
really cross. I told him what…” cut off by the charge nurse. She turned to me
asking whether I had had any experience with ‘encopretics’? I said I had two
small boys at home and that Jan and I had had some fun with potty training,
reading favourite books or playing favourite music and rewarding anything that
looked like a success. But no, I had not yet had experience working with
‘encopretics’. She looked away saying “I think we just need to keep on with the
program, but getting angry with him will not help!” It was not until the
following week that one of the nurses let me know quietly that she had
suggested to Peter that they could read a book together while he was on the
toilet, and this had been ‘fun’. He had had two ‘successes’, and enjoyed a
biscuit from the ward kitchen after each occasion. She had discussed this ‘new’
idea with the parents, and three weeks later they were keen to have him home
after a successful weekend visit (and an admission of four months). I never did
really find out what ‘the program’ had been.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">One of the recurring problems discussed in meetings was how to
gauge when a young person had recovered. Was there an optimum time that would
give confidence that change had occurred? How many symptoms needed to improve
before parents would accept that their child had made sustainable progress? Who
would be the judge of any given behaviour? Did it have to be a consensus score?
Clearly it was the nurses who spent most time with the patients, so it made sense
for the score to be agreed amongst them. With the charge nurse’s permission, we
began the idea of charting key behaviours once a week in the meeting with an
agreed score for each of them from 0 to 10 on severity. The most severe behaviour
would probably occur before or around admission (and could be scored 10), and (hopefully)
become less severe or less frequent with therapy and as time drew near for
discharge. There emerged a rule of thumb that once each of the behaviours were
down to 3 or 4 out of 10, discharge could be discussed with parents. Very crude
sort of measure, yet pragmatically useful, and it became part of the language
of team meetings.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">There is, of course, nothing new in the world. Others had
apparently devised a formal scale some years before (Honigfeld G, Gillis RD,
Klett CJ. (1966). NOSIE-30: A treatment-sensitive ward behavior scale. Psychological
Reports. 19, 180-182). This was a 30-item ‘Nurses Observation Scale for
Inpatient Evaluation’ geared to measuring behaviours in adults with Schizophrenia.
I do not believe I had heard about this formally or informally at any time
prior. And in fact, given the content of items, the original scale would not
have been of much use at Lanthorne. Our scale was developed for use with a wide
array of children and their problems, was pragmatic, flexible, very brief, and
focused on key behaviours (rather than symptoms of one disorder). It was also
very much a consensus measure, and the process of scoring was as important as
the ultimate total score. As befits the times, we would never have ever
considered publishing such a thing.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">At my third weekly visit, a young woman of 15 called Jenni was
discussed in the team meeting. She had attempted suicide at home following
recurrent arguments with her mother and was thought to be in serious danger.
She had only been in a couple of days, but no-one felt they had made any
headway in developing a relationship. She refused to talk, was sullen and
resentful and refused to leave her room even for meals, which were barely touched
even when brought to her room by a nurse prepared to sit with her. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Night staff had reported she prowled around
the unit at night and they thought she was investigating avenues for escape.
The unit had always been secure with windows that had limited ability to open,
and access to the two lifts only available by key. These were worn on a lanyard
around the neck of staff members. To date I had not yet been trusted with my
own key and always had to ask a staff member to escort me into the lift and down
to the ground floor. There were external emergency stairs, but the door was
always locked, keys were kept in the charge nurse’s office, and I am not sure
that Fire Drills had ever been thought about.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">At the end of the meeting the charge nurse said that Dr. Fraser
had suggested to her it might be a good idea for me to attempt some sort of
therapy for Jenni; she did not look convinced. I simply said I would be
delighted to see her. I read through the referral letter, some comments by Ken
Fraser, and the daily nursing notes. There was a hint of angry trouble between
Jenni and her mother’s boyfriend, the father having left the family home some
years prior and not kept in contact.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I knocked on Jenni’s door, taking over the chair of a nurse who
had been sitting with her. I explained who I was and how I thought I may be
able to help. I told her that I had read through the notes, but people seemed
to be perplexed about what had led to her trying to take her mother’s tablets.
No comment or response. No eye contact. Not even a flicker of a reaction to
anything I said. Just a dead look straight ahead. We sat in not very
companionable silence, with me trying various speculations about what might
have happened, and how I imagined she may have felt. No response. The chair was
by a window, so I was able to look at treetops and distant roofs while trying
to find another avenue. After nearly an hour of trying I explained that I had
to leave, but that I would return the following week. In the meantime, I hoped she
would get lots of rest, and perhaps get to know one or more of the nurses. No
response.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1a1a1a;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I would never say that general practice was onerous.
Most of the time it was delightful to have responsibility for the care of my
own ‘flock’. Much of it was very ordinary to my growing experience, even if
frightening to some patients. It was a privilege to be able to relieve the
anxieties with confidence.</span></span></div>
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people had lived all their lives, or where they had retired from a lifetime of
work in London 25 years ago and were now prone to the ravages of time and age.
So, people had terminal cancers, or serious cerebrovascular accidents, or heart
attacks, or their bodies just succumbed to old age. Part of the job was to be
realistic, to work closely with our district nurses to ensure that our patients
were as comfortable as possible in their last weeks and days. There was no
place for hiding the truth, and often my patients were relieved to have the
story explained to them in terms they could understand where they had been
confused by others not so comfortable to discuss the issues. I guess I had
learned powerful lessons from my Sri Lankan doctor friend’s dying during my
second job at King’s, but also from being with my mother during her last weeks
and days. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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during the last stages, particularly when they had few relatives and supports
but refused to be sent to a hospital or home. One of these was Elizabeth who
came from a small family scattered across Southern England, had lost her
parents during the blitz in London, but had been part of that generation of
stoics who ‘soldiered on’. Elizabeth had secondaries from an ovarian cancer
treated years before, and our local oncologist felt their service had reached
the end of the line. Despite her chronic pain and discomfort, she did her
weekly shopping, cooked for herself, and looked after herself as best she could,
adamant she would not accept care. She had worked at the War Office and had a
fund of stories about intrigues that had likely never been told and likely
never would be. Given my own forces’ connections, I found it easy to listen,
and she had the knack of making us both laugh long and loud.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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the doctor’s bag, and I had carried the same five ampoules around in the back
of my car for at least two years. From time to time, Elizabeth would be in such
pain that the nurses would resort to asking me to help; which I did on a couple
of occasions. Such a useful analgesic with few side effects from a standard
dose; you could see the relaxation of facial muscles as the pain disappeared
and euphoria set in. And the stories got funnier. One of us stayed with
Elizabeth for the hour or so after each injection. Nothing adverse ever
happened, but the injection seemed to allow her to cope for the next couple of
weeks on her oral medications. Elizabeth eventually died in her sleep one night
some weeks later, as she had wanted.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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replenish my small supply, and was only ever to use one more ampoule of my five
- with a patient in her mid eighties, dying from cardiac failure in her own
home shared with a younger sister, also just in her eighties. It was in
response to a heart-wrenching request from the sister, deeply saddened by
watching her sister’s struggle: “Is there nothing you can do to ease her
distress, doctor?” My patient died at home 48 hours later, and the sister came
to the surgery a couple of days later to express her gratitude for ‘being so
kind’.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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relieving pain from psychological and interpersonal causes rather than physical
was ultimately to become a major part of my life’s direction. And it began in a
seemingly innocuous way.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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and families for about six months at the Canterbury clinic, when he did me the
honour of asking if it would be possible for me to do another half-day session.
The proposal was that I would visit Lanthorne House once a week, and provide
some medical backup by phone if necessary when Ken was not available. Having
again discussed it with Jan, and then with John, I agreed. I was excited and
daunted, not sure what I would find or how I would manage.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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into the ground floor of a three-storey building, asking for directions to the
unit. “Upstairs”, they said, “Lift at the end of the corridor”. No enquiries or
checking of identity. So I walked the length of the corridor sensing the
atmosphere (echoing, dingy and empty with cries and whimpering off, and the
smell of ancient dust and old faeces, barely concealed by disinfectant), and
caught the lift to the top floor. Why would you organise an inpatient unit for young
people with psychiatric problems on the top floor? Pragmatic reasons, I guess.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-75390629984601019152017-03-30T17:09:00.003+10:002017-03-30T17:09:53.439+10:00Haiku on Crash/ Cut/ Confuse/ Target/ Desire<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Will the island wash
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Under crashing waves<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">A crash and grab
raid<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue Light"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">All on camera<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Having cut herself<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">And it seemed to help<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1f2326; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Helvetica Neue"; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Heated and confused<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1a1a1a;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">While Ken Munro Fraser was senior in experience, I was
to find out he was flexible and open to new ideas. He allowed discussion, and I
decided to keep quiet and listen. I had done enough damage with my ‘foot in
mouth disease’. Or perhaps not! Over the next few weeks there followed a
general airing of ideas about assessment and choosing appropriate therapies for
any given child and family. Ultimately, even though I was only there once a
week to join in the subsequent clinic discussion, I found out there was a
decision about a changed process, with cases allocated within limits on a
roster to any of the professionals. The idea was that the ‘case manager’ would
gain the best understanding of the case that they could, and then bring that to
a team meeting where the next steps in the assessment could be organised, and
appropriate therapy planned. It sped the assessment process up, and took
pressure off the social workers who often had to ‘hold’ a case until a
psychiatrist or psychologist was free to complete their assessment. Of course
Ken retained overall control over the decisions, given he was the Director and
therefore would have to face the music if anything went wrong.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The reports I heard were that the process was quicker,
with professionals able to begin some intervention during or after a first or
second interview session, without having to wait for the main team meeting, so
patient families felt they were getting some ideas and strategies almost from
the beginning. Of course additions or changes could be made if the meeting
consensus suggested something. From a personal perspective, it meant I could
see cases for whom I had some ‘ownership’ and responsibility for diagnosis,
process of assessment, therapy and reporting back to the team meetings. Luckily
I was having some supervision each week from Ken to ensure I was looking at my
own reactions to families and children, but also learning new skills. He was
always suggesting some reading to help this, and would sometimes provide me
with an article copied his secretary. So my one session a week, would often
entail me spending another couple of hours a week in the evenings. Far from
onerous, I found the process exhilarating.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Not that my work in the practice had lost any of its
lustre, and there always seemed to be something new happening. We had a social
work student approach John Hayden to seek a placement in the practice. Her
expectations were that she might get to sit in on clinics, but also spend time
around the practice with midwives, our district nurse, and even my visits to
St. Nicholas at Wade. She was pleasant, enthusiastic, and careful not to
intrude if patients were unhappy for her to be present. Jean had an assignment
to complete prior to finishing, and we discussed ideas in the tearoom and while
driving. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Two of my clinic patients at St. Nicholas were middle
aged men who had each spent many years working as miners at Chislet (until it
closed down in 1969) and then Betteshanger coal mines. Jean thought it would be
a really interesting experience to go down a mine, facing some of the trials
that miners put up with every day. These days, I suspect, all sorts of
bureaucratic blocks focused on occupational health and safety might have been placed
in our path. But when Jean approached her mentor to gain permission to shape
part of her general practice report around the experience of miners, she
thought it was a creative idea. When Jean approached the hierarchy at
Betteshanger, they welcomed the idea of having real life health professionals
gaining experience of working conditions.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">And so, with only minimal discussion at home and in
the practice, foregoing my three piece suit for some older somewhat daggy
clothing one Wednesday afternoon I found myself descending into the depths in a
wooden cage dressed in miner’s dungarees, borrowed boots, a helmet and a
slightly flimsy facemask. Jean was very excited and kept the miners talking
about their experiences. I was less enthusiastic, if not increasingly anxious.
I am not sure what I had expected; perhaps a mini-presentation from a miner or
supervisor, a visit to the wooden cage, and then a tour of the onsite museum
followed by a cup of tea. No such luck!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I realised they were actually going to take us down
the 1600 feet or so in the cage (which was noisy and appeared rickety to my
untutored eye). I felt unable to say no. I was not being gallant for Jean’s
sake; she was thrilled by the whole event and did not need that a mere male to
support her. I just felt a bit embarrassed to wimp out, so I gritted my teeth
and smiled while Jean went enthusiastically through her lengthy list of
questions about mining.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #1a1a1a; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">After a shaky, rattling descent that felt longer than
it actually was, we landed and the cage door was opened to the dim lighting of
a cavern. We were met by the driver of a primitive underground electric train with
open seating on narrow gauge rails. I have no idea how far we travelled, but
the rounded ceiling seemed to get lower, and the walls closed in. Jean kept up
her tirade of excited questions. How did the air stay fresh so far down? (Everything
had begun to taste of coal of course, despite the facemasks). Were they still
using the pit ponies about which she had heard? Not any more. Had there been
any serious accidents? Not for many years. At the end of the line, we were told
that to view the coal face we would have to crawl along a passage under what
looked like wooden trestles maybe four feet high. Jean had already accepted the
challenge and I had little choice but to follow. Lights were strung on the
trestles, but the view either side was limited. The track was not really wide
enough to turn around even if I had no-one behind me; the forty yards of
crawling felt like an eternity. We arrived at a more open area and could see
the open face, with miners drilling holes into rock. I tightened my facemask,
and wished I had earplugs. The holes would eventually hold an explosive charge,
the idea being that the whole face of coal would crumble down ready for transit.
There was what felt like interminable discussion of the intricacies of
explosive charges. These were men who knew what they were doing, given their
lives depended on not making mistakes. There was pride in what they did, and
trust and strong bonding between them. You smiled, and asked rather obvious
questions; the miners smiled back and give rather obvious answers. I was struck
by their acceptance of this dark reality of their work lives, and the tolerance
for extreme working conditions. In contrast I felt a hint of shame in my own rapidly
building need to return to the surface. I wasn’t sure I could get out quick
enough to maintain the shreds of my dignity, and the return journey seemed
endless. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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and was pleased that they (being blokes) were happy to come to the doctor to
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-11880109117324196032017-03-27T12:15:00.004+10:002017-03-27T12:15:49.058+10:00Haiku on Wall/ Fire/ Island/ Pool<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center;">
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walls<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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Snout <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<!--StartFragment--><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Many social media pages, discussion boards and
information pages have sections dedicated </span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">to self-injury. However, mental
health professionals report concerns that some content </span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">may be detrimental to
self-injury recovery. This hypothesis driven cross-sectional research </span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">examined
who accesses such sites, and what they believe they gain. An online </span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">questionnaire was completed by 199</span><i style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;"> </i><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">participants
(78.4% female; 55% university students,</span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">45% from social media). We examined
relationships between Internet use, self-injurious </span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">behaviours, stigma,
help-seeking, perceived social support and self-validation.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">The study suggests associations between having more
serious self-injury, being more </span><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif; text-indent: -1cm;">troubled, and seeking access to Internet
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US">Kaukiainen, A. & <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u>Martin, G.</u></b>, (</span><span style="color: black;">2017</span><span lang="EN-US">). </span>Who
engages with self-injury related Internet sites</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">and what do they gain? <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Suicidology Online</i> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span lang="EN-US">8</span><span lang="EN-US">: 66-77.</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.suicidology-online.com/pdf/SOL-2017-8-66-77.pdf">http://www.suicidology-online.com/pdf/SOL-2017-8-66-77.pdf</a></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14519461744750490160noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6161065053564080769.post-4245859855552126902017-03-15T18:04:00.001+10:002017-03-15T18:04:36.728+10:00Making of a Child Psychiatrist: (65) The General Practitioner (10) A bit of Child Psychiatry<div class="MsoNormalCxSpFirst">
<span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms', sans-serif;">Jan had been recommended a great pre-school, and given Jonathan’s
thirst for knowledge and activity, we both thought it would be a good idea. So
in our second year, he began attending ‘Miss Breckels’. Jan stuck around for a
bit to get an idea of what went on, but also to ensure Jonathan would not get
upset. No chance; he was having fun! He didn’t even seem to miss his brother
much although they were inseparable at home. Roderick, on the other hand, began
to fret at leaving his brother behind, but it was thought he would not be old
enough to attend for at least another year.</span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Part of the idea was to provide input to expand the minds of the
boys, and ensure they knew how to make friends. On the other hand, Jan needed
some time for herself. Despite this, rather oddly, we added to the burden at
home by buying a dog. I think someone in the practice may have suggested it,
and perhaps I had come across someone trying to offload a puppy. We discussed
the issues. Jan had not had the experience of having a dog during her
childhood, even though her uncle and aunt kept a bit of a menagerie. My early
experiences had been with a not very energetic dachshund that ran away and hid
every time you mentioned the word ‘walk’. But we thought it might be good for
the boys to have exposure to animals. In the end we gained a pedigree springer
spaniel. As a puppy, he was delightful, and of course needed lots of attention,
and carrying at the end of a walk. The first signs of trouble began in response
to a weekly delivery of vegetables to our back door, as well as a dozen fresh
eggs. ‘Scamp’ decided he really quite liked raw eggs, and got into the
unbreakable habit of raiding the egg box. Apart from using up most of the egg
supply for the week, he also reacted to a surfeit of egg with powerful smelling
farts over several days. As time went on, he became a bit of a neighbourhood
menace, was self-willed and pulled strongly on the leash, which made life
difficult if you were also pushing a wheelchair. He also seemed to enjoy
finding rotting or oil covered seabirds on the beach and rolling in them, and on
occasion seemed to be able to escape the walled garden of Old Gates whenever a
female dog in the neighbourhood was on heat. He ended up making Jan’s life
almost intolerable and, after about two years, with much sadness we found a
good home for him. I am not sure we were awfully good at owning and training a
dog, even if he was very much loved for the vast majority of the time.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Somewhere about the same time, during the summer months, both of
the boys began to enjoy painting, and were no more happy than when set up with
a large piece of art paper stuck to the fence, with a pot of water and brushes
and lots of watercolours. I had acquired a video camera by this stage, and so I
would film the sequence of painting and the boy’s interactions. The following
summer we persuaded them to repeat the ‘paintathon’ to give me the chance to
video again. I had the fantasy of eventually putting together a timeline film
of these maturing artistic endeavours, but life was about to spring some novel
events that were to lead eventually to major change in our lives.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">It began innocently enough. Reading the local newspaper, I saw an
advertisement for a session at a Child Guidance Clinic in Canterbury. I talked
it through with Jan, and she was on the one hand enthusiastic because it was
focussed on my interests, and also would bring in just a little bit of extra
money. On the other hand she was not happy that I might be spending yet more
time away from home. But she encouraged me to enquire further, which I did. A
Dr Kenneth Munro Fraser asked me for a brief CV further to my phone call, and
then asked me to go for an interview. He asked me about my time at King’s and
why I had not gone on with psychiatry after the first year, given I seemed to
have loved it so much. We talked about being overwhelmed by some of the cases,
and coping with depression, and how opportunities come out of the blue – like a
general practice in your old home area close to families, and then children of
your own who need a stable home. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Despite my lack of experience in child psychiatry, and my becoming
overwhelmed during that first full time year, Ken offered me the session and we
became really good colleagues, even if he was much more experienced than I.
There were few other child psychiatrists around at the time, and he had become
increasingly overwhelmed by the other part of his job as Director of the
Inpatient Service at Lanthorne House in Broadstairs, which housed 25 young
people on the third floor of an old brick building originally built to house
severely mentally and physically handicapped children. Jan was keen to hear
about my interview and impressions of the clinic, and resigned to the
possibility of my goofing off and not being available for yet another afternoon.
Dear Jan; always supportive!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Having been offered the session, carefully negotiated to be on my
nominal day off from the practice each week, I thought I had better clear it
with John. He was surprisingly enthusiastic about my doing a session, making
the point that all the local GPs in Thanet were able to support one service or
another in addition to practice duties.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So I began with some excitement. The clinic was traditional in the
sense that the psychologist did psychology, the social worker did social work, and
the psychiatrist did psychiatry. The way that worked was that a new referral
would be discussed, the social worker would see the parents to gain a family
history of the presenting problems, the psychologist would see the child for
brief assessment and testing, and then the psychiatrist would see the child for
brief assessment. This was all followed by a brief professional group
discussion, and then the psychiatrist would meet with the family and discuss
options for intervention or therapy. There was a problem with this bit of the
process, because Ken was so busy as the only psychiatrist, that it might be
three weeks before a definitive plan was agreed and put into action. From time
to time, in the meantime, the psychologist would go to the relevant school to
get an idea of how the problem was expressed there (if at all), and discuss
possible interventions if warranted.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Therapy
when it happened was mostly brief, mainly behavioural and with the individual
child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There were family sessions
organised by the social worker, but these were not called ‘therapy’; rather
they were ‘supportive’ of the therapy with the child, although a range of
strategies were explored with the parents in an effort to change the presenting
behaviour. That all sounds very logical, utilised the primary skills of each of
the professions, but it was a bit boring over time for the psychologist if they
did not meet the family, perplexing for the social worker if they did not get
to meet the child, and boring for the psychiatrist if their function was mainly
coordinating or bureaucratic. And all three of the main professional groups had
therapeutic skills not being used to their full extent. Further, there were
professionals such as occupational therapists who were asked to do specific
time limited programs of work with a child, but who never attended the planning
meetings, because they were there on other days. And there were also a number
of nursing staff who had therapeutic training, but did not often get the
opportunity to put it into practice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Finally, though after several weeks I was able to become part of
the professional planning group, I really wanted to be able to do assessments
as well as therapy with children. So, being me (the young upstart), and having
been asked at a general clinic meeting to give my impressions of the clinic, I
simply asked the question as to whether everyone thought the assessment process
was time efficient? Well, you could have heard a pin drop.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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